I love and hate holidays all at the same time. It's wonderful to spend time with family but holidays should be 3 or 4 days long so there's no hectic rush. It seems in today's world everyone is so busy running here, visiting there, that time is limited or doesn't seem as precious or quality.

Holidays leave me thankful, reminding me of all the positive in my life and appreciating the people I care about. Holidays also can leave a sadness, whether it's missing someone no longer around or just a general melancholy mood that can creep in if you're not careful involving so many "what ifs" that it can get overwhelming.

I realize I am very lucky and thankful to have what I have and to have such wonderful children and family. I wouldn't trade them for anything. My kids have always been my life.

I hope that everyone has a peaceful Thanksgiving.